What Is Domestic Violence
Domestic Violence is the use of physical force or threatening behavior by one member of a household towards another.
Examples Include
- Physical Abuse: hitting kicking, burning and shoving
- Emotional Abuse: constant criticism, and insults, forced isolation from family and friends, threats against the victim and their loved ones
- Economic Abuse: NOt allowing the victim to work or study, not allowing the victim to have or have acces to finances
- Sexual Abuse: rape, forcing the victim to perform unwanted sexual activities
Warning Signs of a Batterer
- Excessive jealousy and/or possessiveness
- Unrealistic expectations of self and others
- Anger is a typical response when limits or boundaries are set
- Constant contact or spying
- Sudden mood swings
- Threats of violence or self abuse
- Cruelty to the elderly, animals, or children
- Continuous humiliations or belittling
- Blames other for actions or problems
- Possible alcohol or drug abuse and perhaps pressure the victim to participate
What To Do
If you feel you are in danger GET OUT
Call The Police
Be prepared to leave. Gather documents like ID, passport, Social Security, Birth Certificate, bank information, immigration documents, list of important numbers
Contact shelters if there isn’t any friends or family available
Make copies of your house and car keys
Pack clothing and medication and leave them in a safe place
Seek medical treatment if necessary
Seek legal assistance